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Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Hungry For Change

I started watching this documentary. I 'm going to have to come back and watch it later, but I thought I'd share it with all of you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZKjUrZ0Xwc&feature=share

It's an hour and a half so set aside some good time to really watch it and pay attention to it.

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Okay, I've watched it now! It was AMAZING!!! It is very informational on why diets don't work, what 'man-made' foods really do to our bodies, how you can best work with your body to be healthy, and much more.

I think my favorite thing was a comment about love. One of the guys said he once joined a group that's motto was "Let us love you until you can love yourself". I kind of feel like that is part of what this group is about. We are all here to love and support one another. Once you are able to love yourself you will want to treat yourself well. It is when we feel unsafe (unloved) that our body goes into protection mode and we end up giving ourselves that layer of 'protection' (fat).

Anyway, watching this documentary was a huge lightbulb moment for me. I'm feeling sooooo good right now. I'm very empowered to keep moving forward. We can do this!!!

FLYLady

FlyLady cartoon

Has anyone heard of FLYLady? I'm sure at least a couple have. A lot of my thought and things that I try to incorporate each day stem from her. FLYLady (Finally Loving Yourself) is all about organizing your life into routines and daily habits. She's got lots of fun little sayings that really help me out and just make sense.

I know that when my house is messy, or when I haven't written down and scheduled things out, I feel like a complete wreck. I'm stressed out and scatter-brained and can't really accomplish anything (or really want to). When I let my house fall into CHAOS (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome) I don't feel like going out, or getting dressed in the morning. I for sure don't want to eat healthy or exercise. It's just a sad destructive cycle.

Sometimes we need a friendly shove to get us out of that. FLYLady does that for me. She sends out reminder emails about different things to do to help you get back on the path to organization. One of my favorite things that she says is "You can do anything for 15 minutes". It is actually amazing what you can accomplish in that time too. Try it! If there is something that you are putting off, dreading to do, or can't find time for, just set your timer for 15 minutes and tell yourself that you can stop when your time is up. You'll be surprised, I promise! This is also a great way to get started on exercising. Just tell yourself your are going to do two to four 15 minute workouts during the day. Schedule some time for them. Make it happen!

Another one of my problems.... I'm a perfectionist. If I think I can't do it right immediately then I put it off (procrastinator too!). Most perfectionists are actually that way. Another FLYLady-ism "Housework done incorrectly still blesses your family." Sometimes we have to allow ourselves to fudge a little on our housework just so we can get it done so we can feel better. If this means only vacuuming in high traffic areas, or doing a quick wipe down of counters and toilet instead of the whole bathroom, it still helps.

Anyway, those are my thoughts today. If you have more questions about FLYLady let me know. I can share what knowledge I have. You can also check out her website and sign up for her emails yourself. You won't be sorry! :)

Late to the Party :)

Hello ladies, sorry I am late to the party but better late than never huh? I wanted to write a little post to introduce myself. I am Kate Desmond. I am the mother of 5 wonderful children, my oldest will be 12 in August and my youngest just turned 1 last week. Here they are on Alexandria's blessing day (Can't figure out how to crop here so just pretend my Jared doesn't have his hand in his pants ;):



I have been married to my wonderful husband Dave for 13 years. Here we are (this was taken in July 2010 post weight loss):

We have lived in Bear River for a little over 4 years which is the longest we have lived anywhere since we have been married. We have moved a total of 13 times. We decided with this last move that we really need to settle down and let our kids make some real friends. Moving is hard but staying is too I have found. I think I might have some nomadic blood in my body :).

Ok, on to my weight loss/health journey. I had a late miscarriage (13 weeks) between my 4th and 5th children back in September of 2009. I was at a really low point in my life for not only the obvious reason but because I just didn't have very good self esteem. Growing up I felt like I could do anything I put my mind to but once I started having kids I didn't feel pretty anymore and being a parent is a much harder job than I ever thought it would be. I was just plain depressed and felt like a failure. I was at my heaviest after that miscarriage including when I was 9 months pregnant with my other kids and I just couldn't see how I was going to be able to take the weight off. Usually when I nurse I lose my baby weight but without a baby to nurse that just wasn't going to happen. My husband and I decided to take at least a year before trying for another baby to give my body a chance to heal from my D&C and for my mind to heal from this very hard loss. I decided in early November of that year to start trying to lose weight. Yes, I started BEFORE the holidays. And guess what? I lost weight instead of gaining it between November and January! My secret was that I followed the weight watchers system on my own (ie I never went to a center and just used the materials my SIL had from when she was a member). I also started exercising on a regular basis. I went to a Zumba class once a week and then did Biggest Loser for the Wii at home. Also, remember those pesky holidays? I gave myself the day off from counting points only on the actual holiday itself. That doesn't mean that I pigged out (ok lets be honest sometimes I fell off the wagon and pigged out) it just means I didn't stress out too much about what I was eating but did try to make mostly good choices. Long story short, I was able to lose 33 pounds before I got pregnant with my little girl and had a much healthier pregnancy. In fact I only gained 23 of those pounds back and was back to my pre-pregnancy weight within 3 months of giving birth to my baby.

Now, why am I here? Because this is how I look now:

I am proof that the number on the scale doesn't mean a thing! Even though the number on the scale is close (I have gained back about 5 lbs in the last 6 months, stupid hormones!) to what it was pre-pregancy my body is different. I had my 3rd c-section. My clothes don't fit right and I am positive that a lot of the muscle I built before has been replaced by fat. Mostly, I want to feel as good as I did before I got pregnant, there really isn't a better feeling than being able to keep up with your kids. I have fallen out of some of my good habits. I personally have a very hard time drinking water. I know that I need to and it isn't that I drink other stuff it is just that I forget to drink anything. I am sure that I am dehydrated 90% of the time. I read somewhere that when you start to feel thirsty you are already dehydrated so don't wait until you feel thirsty ladies! I also need some motivation from you guys. I am struggling right now because I have been through this all before and I know just how hard it is. I know that I CAN DO IT though and
YOU CAN TOO!

Friday, March 30, 2012

Listen to Your Body

I read an interesting article on KSL today. Thought I would share it. I think it points out some really good thoughts that we should ponder.



When your body talks, listen
By C. Jane Kendrick, ksl.com Contributor - March 29th, 2012 @ 9:44pm


My body woke me up when the sky was still dark and my house was quiet.

Take me for a walk?

It asked.

I shuffled about in the shadows of my house putting on shoes, finding a shirt, throwing on a jacket, pulling up my hair.

Outside was spring-like, not the bone-chilling reception we've had these past few months.

The birds were up too, perched high in the bare trees, chatty, noisy little things.

I walked and walked, talked myself into climbing up an inclined street until I reached the top and looked out onto my still, frosted town. The red-roofed library, the stacked Kimball tower, the dark sky-scraping Nu Skin building, the white rounded temple, all in my view. I stopped and listened to the drumming of heartbeats in my ears.

That's when my body started talking to me.

You've got to trust me.

It told me.

When I am hungry, I will tell you.

You'll hear it in chambered echoes, grumbles and moans.

DON'T FEED ME until you hear my call.

When I am lonely, I will tell you.

A lump will well up in your throat, like you've swallowed cotton, and tears will form in your eyes.

DON'T FEED ME. Try making a connection with the fine collection of friends you love.

When I am anxious, I will tell you.

Your heart will beat fast, your breath will struggle to leave the lungs and you might feel full of fire.

DON'T FEED ME. Instead, sit down and fight for those breaths. Let the oxygen pour into you — clearing the veins and vessels. Close your eyes. Identify the fear that is squeezing you.

When I feel depressed, I will tell you.

There will be a significant lack of energy, a slumpy reaction to bed-leaving. My mind will slow down and thoughts will become like black puffy clouds.

DON'T FEED ME. Instead, fill your head back up with new thoughts, ideas from books and discussions. Replace the dirty fuel in your mind with clean energy.

When I feel stressed, I will tell you.

Like rubber bands squeezing around your cranium, your head throbbing, your stomach turning, your muscles tightening.

DON'T FEED ME. Instead, write it all out, everything you are feeling. Look over the list and examine.

When I feel sick, I will tell you.

Fevers, aches, pains and physical discomfort.

DON'T FEED ME. Take care of me, bathe me, give me lots of water and put me to bed.

When I feel happy, I will tell you.

Goose bumps infiltrate your skin, you will feel light and airy, propped up on energy, buzzing in your blood.

DON'T FEED ME. Use the excess vivacity to spread your sentiments to someone else.

When I need exercise, I will tell you.

Your legs will ache to be walked, your back will beg to be stretched, your heart will ask to be throbbed.

DON'T FEED ME. Walk me. And don't exercise me until I say so, please, or we will battle.

When I feel lazy, content, competitive, peaceful, overwhelmed, snippy, snappy, hot, cold, tired, frustrated, thirsty, full, beaming and bright, I will tell you.

DON'T FEED ME. None of these sentiments require food. Excess surplus will have to be stored. I will have to make more of us — human shelves in rolls and lumps — to organize the overflow intake. Don't make me do that, please. There are babies to feed, children to squeeze, a husband to kiss. Right now, we don't have a lot of steam to become a storage facility as well.

But when I feel hungry, I will send you a message of emptiness of stomach, dizziness of head, a sensation in your mouth extending into your throat that reads, I NEED FOOD. PLEASE DON'T STARVE ME.

Then, feed me.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

How can I satisfy my sweet tooth in a healthy way?

Anyone else have a problem saying no to your cravings? I especially have a problem when I get to the end of the day. I'm tired, worn down from dealing with the day, and am in the bad habit of pigging out on the couch while I let my brain veg. I need some more ideas on ways to make healthy choices when it comes to snacks and especially when those sugar cravings hit. Ideas?

How can I make exercising be something I want to do?

Getting that extra motivation to get up and move can be hard. What do you do to make exercising something that you want to do rather than 'have' to do?

How can I motivate myself to drink water?

We are encouraged to drink at least 64 oz. of water a day. Sometimes it's easy to forget to drink or other times I just don't want to. What are some ways that help you stay hydrated?

Eight Glasses: Fact or Fiction?